Oh my, i am late again aren't i? ><'
Gomenasai, minna-san!
Anyway, today i am going to talk about 20 people~ 10 types of people i hate and 10 types of people i love~! I think most of these are pretty universal except a select few in the 10 types of people i love :P
As a disclaimer, since everything needs a disclaimer,
most people i know (most people in general, too) are a mixture of the 20 different types of people.
I am not perfect, nor do i claim to be, so of course i also have some hateful attributes in me... heehee ^^
Anyway, i think that what makes people interesting is not just their attributes but also their flaws - although when a person's flaws overpower their attributes, that's when i start to feel a bit sketchy with this person.
My like for a person goes like this - it remains at its maximum all the time, even when they annoy me. When they annoy me, my base line with them goes down.
I will keep liking the said person until the very end - until i hit my bottom line,
then it's BOOM! BAM! CYA LATER BETCH! GOOD RIDDANCE!
so for an advice for every person out there,
if someone is lookin' pissed with you, lay off it for a couple of days, be all sweet and stuff, and don't push their limits ;) everyone has limits afterall ^^
anyway, without further ado, ten people i love and hate!! (in no particular order)
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HATE
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1) Know It All's
it's okay if you want to prove how intelligent you are, i completely respect that in a person. intelligence is sexy. it's also kawaii. but when it comes to the point where you insist on being right about EVERYTHING (even when you're clearly wrong) then it's time to lay it off. it's infuriating, especially because i am prideful.
2) Whiners and Complainers
okay, i admit to being one of these. i always whine about things. but come on, people... time is golden. but duct tape is silver. shut up or put up.
3) Clingers
i love feeling needed. i think everyone loves feeling needed. there's no better feeling in the world, then knowing someone depends on you and needs you. but when it comes point where someone needs me to be with them even when i have important things to attend to, then f*ck off.
4) Tsunderes
it's kawaii in animes but not so much in real life. if you act tsundere all the time, then i'd rather be alone. i don't believe that outside you can be abusive and mean but inside you actually love me and care for me. if you love me then you won't hurt my feelings, end of story.
5) Naggers
if you said it once, i will remember. say it more than twice, then i will purposely forget to piss you off.
6) Normal People (Or those who claim to be)
i'm not normal. I don't think anyone is normal. Because it doesn't exist. But if anyone ever asks me, "can you be more *normal*?" then i think i'm gonna lose my sh*t. i am NOT normal. I never claimed to be. if you want someone normal, then i'm not for you. i'm a proud, anime-loving, game-crazy, immature little NOT normal yet shy brat. if you want "normal", go buy a washing machine.
7) Cruel People
it's very rare to meet truly cruel people, but i dislike cruelty even in theory. no one's Mother Theresa, but everyone deserves sympathy when going through a difficult time. if you cannot be sympathetic, we cannot be friends. I cannot possibly tolerate someone who has a cruel heart. i am far from innocent, but there is this saying, "be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a difficult battle."
8) Negative People
i believe we all have our downfalls, we all have our sadness. but i want mutual positivity instead of mutual negativity. i want to inspire people, and encourage them, and i want them to do the same for me. if they bring me down or insists on being a "black hole", well, bullocks for you, then. that's not for me.
9) "It's okay for me but not for you" People
i believe in mutuality in friendships and relationships. if there is a "i can do it but you cannot" moment, well, let's say that it just lowered my respect for you a little bit. it's not okay if you can poke fun at me to other people but i cannot do the same to you. equality for all! Rah rah rah!
10) Those that don't keep Promises
if you can't do something, then don't promise it. naturally, when comes time that i believe your promises are as worthless as a penny, i will never do another thing for you, you lousy louse.
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LOVE
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1) The Mentor
everyone needs a mentor in their life. someone that inspires good things, that encourages good things, that teaches you things that you cannot learn from anyone else. a role model, if you will. i love people who inspire me and teach me new things.
2) The "Always There"
whether this person is your friend or a far away person you have never met before, i think that the person who you can talk to on a deep, emotional level as well as have fun with, is one of the most cherished peoples ever. where would i be without my little "always there" friend?
3) Sweet People
and i'm not talking about those that can sugar-coat words like a master. I'm talking about genuinely sweet people who honestly care about you, your feelings, and your well-being. those that will help without expecting something in return, those that will spark you to life.
4) Otaku's and Gamers
honey, if you are an otaku or a gamer, that's +5000 charisma for you. i LOVE otaku's and gamer's. i don't know what it is about them, but something about these people just have a certain charm, something that makes me admire them and like them.
5) Writers
i love writing. it's my passion. i also love reading. so i also love those that are writers, as we can exchange ideas, give criticism, proofread, and if they're also an anime fan...? we can roleplay! hahahha! <3
6) The Cuddler
i'm a sucker for cuddles. and i'm not just talking hugs. whether you're my friend or my fairytale prince charming, if you lean on me, or hold my hand, or play with my hair, or sit close to me and keep me warm when we are together? i automatically like you, and the cuddler can veto almost everything that i dislike in a person. that's how strong my desire for comfort is. i'm a lonely person after all. i just want someone to make me feel loved.
7) We're From the Same Place!!
i love people who come from my place of ancestry. honestly i've only met two of them but both clicked with me and despite knowing them for such short times, we could have such meaningful and fun conversations!
8) Kindhearted People
who doesn't love a kind person? i love people that are nice. nice people are almost always purehearted people as well. even though deep, complex people have their charms, a kind, simple person is also a great friend. because these people, much like sweet people, are soft spoken and care much for others. i think that anyone who can think of others before themselves is a wonderful, wonderful person to be around.
9) Playful Types
whether it's the avid party-goer or the fun jokester, everyone needs some fun once in awhile! I'm not usually associated with these types of people due to my "shy unless you're a close friend" personality, but if you can make me laugh, i probably like you. if you can include me, then all the more. i love playful people. quirky people. fun people.
10) Meaningful People, Deep People
i love having deep and meaningful conversations. it's nice to have depth in a person.
Anyway,
So there you have it!
My top ten most hated and top ten most loved aspects of a person! There's definitely more, for example "those that don't know limits" in hate, or "those that love travelling" in love,
but,
that's the most basic, minna-san! <3
And of course i don't claim to be perfect. My bad probably outweighs my good. Should i examine myself, then?
Well,
I'm a bit snooty at times, and also insecure. I can be argumentative but at the same time i'm a bit passive aggressive. I often don't keep my promises, and sometimes i'm very negative and complain a lot. i'm overly sensitive and a bit of a worrywart. i have a tendancy to keep it all in and then explode as well, instead of talking it out when the problem is just in the bud.
but to be fair, i have good attributes too -
i'm usually quite good; i try to think the best of people and i try not to judge. i can be very sweet at times although it's not always genuine. i forgive easily and i can adapt to many different kinds of people, and i usually do look out for the best interests of others.
i can say i'm pretty balanced in terms of good and bad. ^^
What about you? ;)
'Till next time, then! <3
~RenaPon~
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